I did wonder if the PCB was designed to handle the
current involved.
Personally, I'd swap it out for individual
components.
If the 20'000uF has been working for you, get a
single large capacitor with screw/spade terminals (makes
connections far simpler that solder terminals), a
suitable bridge rectifer (with spade terminals), and a
suitable bleed resistor. The bleed resistor should be
connected over the capacitor terminals so it drains the
capacitor when power is removed and there is no load
applied. Something like a 1kOhm 10W resistor will lower
the voltage in under a minute.
Wire it so the resistor is the star-point in the
power circuit i.e. the output from the bridge rectifier
connects to the capacitor, then everything that is needs
power is also connected to the capacitor.
Bolt the bridge rectifier either to a suitable chunk
of aluminium, or possibly your control box with some
heat paste, and monitor how hot it gets. I've never had
to use a proper bridge rectifier heatsink, however that
may be an option for your setup.
The individual components may cost more, however at
least if something does go pop, it'll be far cheaper to
replace.
Moray